Sonship Based Living Means Learning to Live Open Hearted and Consistently Overcoming Obstacles
You learn to Live Connected to God’s Love.
Learning to live open-hearted creates life flow.
What is Life Flow?
Life flow is where a heart is open to give and receive at all times. Sonship Based Living is where you live loved as a son/daughter with your Father.
Love flows back and forth in warm relationship.
Instruction and dialogue occur empowering you to learn and grow.
Living connected in this interactive relationship with God releases His blessings in your life. You are trusted with assignments.
Problems and conflicts can be considered, dialogued, and solved. The result?
You live as an overcomer!
- Marriage – There’s respect and honor, even in
- Parenting – Children’s hearts feel connected and valued. Discipline’s about behavior and not identity.
- Healthy Relationships – Excellent people skills lead to success.
- Problem Solving – No victim mentality issues.
- Productivity – No fear of failure.
These skills are easy to integrate when you know their foundation.
I know what it’s like to grow up with an abusive father, and I know the “unsafe” feeling which comes with that type of upbringing. It was not safe to live open-hearted, in “sonship”, toward my dad. As a Christian for almost 20 years, I battled many fears and anxieties; and as a result, I learned to close my heart and shut down to keep from getting hurt anymore.
Unfortunately, this also shut down my growth. There was no life flow at all. Learning Sonship Based Living is what opened up growth in my life.
Sonship Based Living comes from feeling secure in God’s love — and security causes fears to leave.
When I became secure in the Father’s love, it was like flipping a light switch on in a dark room.
Father God’s love causes you to no longer need to protect your heart.
My book, The Sonship Empowered Life, is about the Father’s love and Sonship Based Living. This book is an excellent place to start your overcoming journey.
I deal with such topics as:
Shame and Condemnation
As well as showing you:
A “road map” to maturity
How to live in community
How to find your destiny
But is it truly possible to live in Sonship Based Living?
Yes! It’s entirely possible to live in an active relationship between you and Father God. This is how it originally was with Adam. He was in Sonship — where God’s life is flowing through the vine, producing fruit. (John 15:5)
As we gain security and learn to work with the dealings of God, He instructs and corrects us (Hebrews 12:5-11) as sons and daughters, so we learn and grow to be overcomers. This open-hearted living helps improve our:
But what if I get hurt?
You probably will still be hurt, but learning to live open-hearted is about learning life skills. It’s about getting the training to handle our hurts as they happen, not allowing them to rule over our lives and shut us down.
Many of us – including me – did not learn these skills in our upbringing. Did you naturally receive healthy skills by what your parents modeled for you, or are their deficits? My book will give you all the training you need to live as an overcomer.
The Sonship Empowered Life will train you:
How to handle conflict resolutions
How to problem solve
How to be more productive
Get started today on the most exciting journey of your life!
The Sonship Empowered Life gives you a road map to this life of open-hearted living where becoming an overcomer and living in life flow happens daily.
You truly can live in Sonship!
About the author: Robert Hartzell is founder of Robert Hartzell Inc and Director of Fountains of Life
By Robert Hartzell CEO of Robert Hartzell Inc
He is an Author and Speaker on Fathering Leadership, The Father’s Love, and Sonship
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