Is God Angry?

Seeing Father God’s heart of love is the only path to Christian maturity.

John 3:16-17 — For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.

Obedience Based on Fear

When I was still a boy my family and I went to a restaurant. My brother and I used our napkins properly and kept our elbows off the table. We were not noisy nor did we interrupt, in fact we did not speak unless spoken to. A couple sitting nearby commented to my dad how well-mannered my brother and I were. What they did not know was that we lived with an abusive father and were obedient for fear of our lives!

My father extracted our obedience, but at what cost? I grew up hating him and rebelled in every way. He extracted obedience, but he did it based on fear and control, producing only an outward conformity.

I cannot put into words how huge I think this is! This is the church; this is the world system; this is the debate of our times! A huge amount of preaching relies on the idea of threat, punishment or judgment. I feel like this is bringing God down to man’s level or projecting onto God how man would do things. Having to resort to threat is weakness, it is fear-based and it implies insecurity. A bully would not have a need to intimidate if he was secure! I grew up with an abusive father and it was all based in fear. I just cannot believe that God is in heaven wringing His hands over what in the world He is going to do with so many disobedient children!

Bill Johnson once said, “A battle is brewing, not over the Holy Spirit, healing or revival, but over the goodness of God. If I did to my children what some people accuse God of doing to His, I would be thrown in jail for child abuse!”

God is not destroying cities with earthquakes or floods. He is not causing storms and hurricanes because of sin, and He is not putting sickness on people to try and teach them something. He is a loving God. 1 John 4 says that God is love and so everything He does is with love in mind. Am I saying there are no consequences for sin, of course not, but I believe how we look at it is vitally important. Man chooses his own way, the world is under sin, and breaking God’s laws bring reaping. If an airplane loses a wing and thus breaks God’s laws of aerodynamics it will crash, not because God poured out His wrath but because laws were broke. God’s will is that all the people on that plane would be saved, 1 Timothy 2:4.

True obedience is born out of a heart broken by love not out of scaring someone into “fire insurance.” It is love alone that can make a person feel safe enough to lower the walls down from around their heart and move into empathy. True conviction has to have the element of empathy for it is then that we see how our actions have hurt others, we move out of selfishness and can begin embracing steps of humility! Even to the point of seeing our need for a Savior.

A loving father is one who sets boundaries for his children, gives them free choice but also does not rescue them from the consequences of their actions. He never devalues, demeans or belittles, and it is certainly not his heart to pour out his wrath on his disobedient children.

God is well able to be the mature one in our relationship with Him, to take the high road, not being childish or petty. He is not threatened by ways we are still selfish and immature. He rejoices over us with joy and singing (Zephaniah 3:17) and His banner over us is love (Song 2:4).

A Definition – Live At Home in Love

How would you define what it really means to live “at home” in love? What would it look like? How would it make you feel?

For example, imagine this classic movie plot. A man works as an undercover agent. He lives for the thrill of action and adventure, a true adrenaline junkie. So what happens? What else, he meets a girl, decent and caring, who sweeps him off his feet. Yet, he struggles to settle down, to live at home in love instead of a life of adrenaline.

In the predictable plot, life brings challenges his way and he nearly loses what truly grew in his heart — love for his family. These trials bring things into focus for him and motivates change.

In a final scene, he plays on the beach with his little boy, laughing with his wife, such joy on his face. His friend nearby says, “He’s home, where he’s always belonged.”

Have you realized the place you have always belonged? 

Learning to live at home in love opens up to us life in the Secret Kingdom. Therefore, let’s consider how to do this.

 

Learning to Live At Home in Love

At first, it seems like such a simple concept, to live at home in love. Yet, many things seek to pull us away.

For instance, in my childhood the enemy sought to insert a lie into my heart – a lie that say home represents danger. As a result, I have battled fears and insecurities. Regrettably, I dealt with this through times of withdrawal and putting up walls of defensiveness.

However, God created me for love, to live at home in love. Living here makes life work, it gives life meaning. Consequently, nothing brings more fulfillment and joy than discovering the Secret Kingdom of a life lived in love.

1 John 3:14 We know that we have passed from death to life, because we love each other. Anyone who does not love remains in death.

As a result of this truth, I want to grow. How about you? Let’s consider some practical steps.

• Daily show each of our family members how incredibly loved and special they are.
• Seek to do little acts of kindness each day in the world around you, and don’t even tell anyone about it.
• Express your love and gratitude to God. Science has proved what God has said all along; writing a daily Gratitude Journal works makes for a healthy heart and keeps you from entertaining negativity. (1 Thess.5:18)

 

Eternity

Finally, learning to live at home in love prepares you for living in eternity.

1 John 4:16 And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them. 

To quote Brennan Manning —“I have become convinced that on Judgment Day Jesus will ask us just one question: ‘Did you believe that I loved you?’”

So then, have you found the Secret Kingdom, to live “at home” in love?

If we will let Him, God will use life as a preparation for us “to live at home in love” eternally. Jesus went and prepared a place for us. John 14:2 calls it “a family dwelling.”

In conclusion, we exist to learn to live in this Secret Kingdom, our family dwelling. We exist to live at home in God’s love.

How To Become Fluent in the Father’s Love

1 John 4:7-8… everyone who loves is born of God and knows God.                                                           He who does not love does not know God, for God is love.

Imagine listening to the pure, spine tingling sounds of a Stradivarius violin played by a maestro. The notes resound pure, powerful, and penetrating. The sounds stir something deep in you, emotions flow, and you find your heart moved into warmth and creativity. The violin functions according to its perfect design.

Your heavenly Father, as the ultimate Maestro, sends His vibrations of love through you, the perfect “Stradivarius,” created in His image, fearfully and wonderfully made. This happens as you take love seriously, focus on love, and surrender to love.

Taking Love Seriously

When you embrace your design and prioritize love, you participate with God to bring His love to earth as it exists in heaven. Then, you have started to become fluent in the Fathers love. You begin to experience wholeness more deeply and the broken places in others receive ministry from you.

Have you made a decision to take love seriously?

Life spent in any other purpose lacks meaning, flows contrary to design, and becomes ultimately painful. Therefore, let’s consider how to take love seriously.

Focus on the Father’s Love

First, you make love your focus. Consequently, God will use every relationship, every situation, circumstance, and challenge in your life to bring you deeper into His love. To simply let go of your resistance to love becomes your job in every situation. How can you do this?

You can ask, “God, show me your love in this situation.”

When you find yourself struggling in some circumstance pray, “Father, help me see this with Your eyes of love. Wherever my thoughts have drifted from love, where I’ve tried to protect myself, acted defensively, greedy, angry, fearful… — help me shift my mindset to think according to Your thoughts of love.”

Surrender to the Father’s Love

What does it mean to surrender to God? It means to release your expectation, your push for a given result and to simply choose to love. As you choose love as the priority in any situation, you release the power of God to do wonderful things. You then find rest, freedom, and victory, regardless of the outcome.

Become Fluent in the Father’s Love

The Christian life resounds through love, even as that Stradivarius violin penetrates hearts and emotions. The more you become fluent in the Fathers love, the more you “know Him.” The more you resist love, the more you can see you don’t yet know Him. Thankfully, He never condemns you for this — He is love. He’s calling you, “Come to My love, My child, and find rest.”

Many people see the Fathers Love through a “works” lens but don’t even realize it. Intellectually they think, “I have embraced the fact that God loves me unconditionally.” However, the fruit their lives produce tells the true story.

Mark 8:16-18  — And they reasoned among themselves, saying, “It is because we have no bread.” But Jesus said to them, “Why do you reason because you have no bread? Do you not yet perceive nor understand? Is your heart still hardened? Having eyes, do you not see?…

So what do you do with all this? First and foremost, how can you know if you really do struggle to see the Fathers love? And secondly, how can you fix it?

 

The Struggle – Feeling Powerless

Have you ever felt that sinking feeling that comes when you have a sense of powerlessness? I used to see this dog left chained up in a neighbor’s backyard all day long. He’d bark and tug, longing for freedom, fun, and fellowship. He’d eventually tire and give in, laying down dejected. In the same way, I have sometimes grown tired in my Christian life and laid down dejected.

 

Trying But Not Succeeding

For example, I heard a teaching on obeying God’s commands that stirred me deeply. Oh, the benefits that would come to the man who could obey, benefits of favor and success. And, oh, the consequences of the one who does not obey!

I tried so hard to keep God’s commandments in order to show Him that I loved Him. (Jn.14:15)

I “tried hard,” as opposed to operating from a base of knowing I’m loved already. I didn’t see that at the time.  This wrong “seeing” produced adverse effects in me. I failed repeatedly at my attempts to obey. I thought I could see the Father’s love, yet my life fruit proved differently.

So then, what “fruit” indicates I struggle to see the Fathers love?

• A tendency to be hard on myself and battle condemnation.
• I “try harder” to overcome in certain areas of my life but feel like I never make any progress.
• Struggles crop up in my heart to show a gracious toward the faults of others.
• The ability to rest in my blessedness as a child of my Father eludes me.

 

How Did I Fix It?

Consider this verse: 1 John 2:5 But whoever keeps His word, truly the love of God is perfected in him…

For years I “saw” that verse as something I needed to do to show God’s love perfected in me.  

• I needed to keep God’s word, I needed a deep daily prayer time, with some fasting mixed in.
• I had better walk in the fruit of the Spirit, showing patience and kindness toward everyone.
• Perhaps most importantly, I should reach the lost and pray for the sick.

Regrettably, most days I rarely made it past lunch before feeling I had failed in some way. I didn’t correctly see the Fathers love.

Yet as I studied and learned more about the Fathers love, I saw that verse in reverse.

God’s love doesn’t perfect (develope) in me after I can finally show obedience. I can finally show obedience only after enough of God’s love perfects (develops) in me!

Once I can embrace my weakness and in humility let God’s love into my heart, keeping His word becomes natural and easy.

Because He loves me, despite my failings, I grow deeper in love with Him. I start to love what He loves. Out of love I obey.

God has a call to us. A call to rest, a call to love. A place where competition, striving, jealousy, and condemnation, don’t exist. For when I am weak, then I am strong. (2 Cor.12:10)

Developing eyes that really perceive, really see the Fathers love brings freedom. Freedom to rest, and freedom to grow.

A Principle for Internalizing God’s Love

I have read the article in today’s post many times since 1986 when I received it from a friend. It has deeply impacted my life. It provides a principle most people miss in pursuit of healthy Christian living. The article explains how to build the positive into our lives. Let me explain.

Think about a broken leg after a couple of months in a cast. The bone has become solid again. However, muscle strength still has to be rebuilt. Consider this analogy in the context of Prayer Ministry.

I have given and received many hours of Prayer Ministry and I’ve seen and experienced much healing. The negative wounding has been cleansed. However, the positive still has to be built in, or learned if you will. This can be understood in the context of family.

Consider a person growing up in an emotionally healthy home. Thousands of experiences have been internalized wherein people were kind to each other. The parents consistently modeled respectful behavior, even in conflict and conflict resolution. All of these events built healthy neural connections in the brain of the child. As an adult, the child easily follows suit. But, what if you didn’t have those developmental experiences? How might you build in the positive, even as you cleanse out the negative?

Today’s article will give you a key principle to build in the positive in your life.

YOU ARE YOUR SECRETS

O. Hobart Mowrer

A few years ago, by sheer coincidence, I “discovered” the novels of Lloyd C. Douglas. Since the early 1930’s, I had, of course, been accustomed to seeing their titles—sometimes two or three at a time— on the various best-seller lists. But, as a professional psychologist, I had dismissed them as the sentimental rubbish, which the critics were all too willing to assure you they were. However, sometime in 1954, one of our then teen-age daughters remarked to me one day that she was reading a book which she thought I, too, would find interesting. It was, she said, by a man named Douglas and was entitled Magnificent Obsession; and in the passage which had particularly inspired her comment, someone was saying that he had just realized that, whatever else the Bible might or might not be, it is a superb handbook on human relations. Having grown up in—and long since left—a church which took a completely other-worldly view of religion, I was indeed intrigued by this notion and soon started reading the book myself.

This was at a time when, for both scientific and personal reasons, I was thoroughly disillusioned with psychoanalysis and was desperately looking for something to take its place. Here, it seemed, was a possible lead. As a indication of the impact Magnificent Obsession had on me, I may say that from it I went on, during the next year or so, to read all of Douglas’ other novels (some ten of them), his autobiography, a collection of sermons, four small “theological” books (published while he was still a Congregational minister), and The Shape of Sunday, by his daughters, Virginia and Betty. As a psychologist and as a person, I as much impressed by the interpersonal philosophy of Lloyd Douglas, as it is developed in his various writings. But here I want to call attention to a particularly penetrating insight—the very heart of his approach—which I have recently been helped to understand in a new and deep way.

I.

There are millions of persons now living who will recall the scene, about midway through Magnificent Obsession, in which young Dr. Wayne Hudson, “on the edge of failure and in deep depression” following the death of his wife, goes to a monument works to pick out a marker for her grave and there encounters the eccentric but strangely talented sculptor, Clive Randolph. Sensing the doctor’s state of mind, Randolph engages him in conversation and gradually, as their friendship develops, imparts to him a “secret” which can, he says, transform one’s life.

At no place in the novel is the theory fully and explicitly stated; but when pieced together, it runs something like this. Most of us live depleted existences: weak, zestless, apprehensive, pessimistic, “neurotic.” And the reason is that when we perform a good deed, we advertise, display it—and thus collect and enjoy the credit then and there. But when we do something cheap and mean, we carefully hide and deny it (if we can) with the result that the “credit” for acts of this kind remains with us and “accumulates.” A person who follows such a life style is chronically bankrupt in the moral and spiritual sense. If, at any given moment, his life were “required of him,” he would be found wanting, could not pay out, settle up; for his “net worth” is less than nothing, negative. Small wonder, then, that a person of this kind has no confidence or zest and lacks creativity—he is too busy pretending, too “insecure,” too afraid of being “found out.”

So what is the alternative, the remedy for a person who has already fallen into, or wishes to avoid, such a miserable and meaningless existence? It is, quite simply, to reverse this whole strategy: admit and thus divest oneself of one’s weaknesses, errors, follies and hide one’s charities, good deeds, virtues. This, Randolph tells Dr. Hudson, is the secret of “what mysterious power I mentioned. By following these instructions to the letter, you can have anything you want, do anything you wish to do, be whatever you would like to be. I have tried it. It works. It worked for me. It will work for you!” (p.134)

And where, Dr. Hudson asks, did Randolph come by such an idea?

One day, I went to the church my little girl attended, and heard a preacher read what is on this page (torn from the New Testament, which the sculptor always carried in his billfold).

It evidently meant nothing to him, for he read it in a dull monotonous chant. And the congregation sat glassy-eyed, the words apparently making no impression. As for me, I was profoundly stirred…..  There it was—in black and white—the exact process for achieving power to do, be, and have what you want! I experimented.” (p. 135)

We are never told exactly where this passage is to be found in the New Testament; but it is not hard to guess that the allusion is to the first few verses of Matthew 6: “Take heed that ye do not your alms before men. . . Do not sound a trumpet before thee, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may have glory of men. Verily I say unto you, they have their reward. But when thou doest alms, let not thy left hand know what thy right hand doeth: that thine alms may be in secret: and thy Father which seeth in secret Himself shall reward thee openly.”

Randolph had wanted the “capacity to do just one creditable work of statuary!” A few years before he had been an ordinary stone-cutter. Now he was a gifted sculptor whose work was later to be exhibited “at the Metropolitan.” So Dr. Hudson also “experimented,” taking care that his philanthropies were never know during his lifetime. He transcended his depression and became a great brain surgeon. And Bobby Merrick, another character in the book, by following the same principles, was able to make an important humanitarian invention.

Ah, you will say, but these events happened only “in a book.” Can they be duplicated in real life? Neither in his autobiography, Time to Remember, nor in Doctor Hudson’s Secret Journal (the sequel to Magnificent Obsession, written 10 years later), nor in the volume which his daughters published about him, is there any definite evidence that Lloyd Douglas himself practiced Clive Randolph’s secret formula for “power.” But is it not suggestive that until he was fifty years old, Douglas was a good but not outstanding minister and then, suddenly, became and remained to the end of his life the most widely read novelist in the English language? “Daddy always said he wanted to write a novel someday,” his daughters tell us. If all the facts were known, I believe that Lloyd C. Douglas’ own life would dramatically testify to the potency of the principle which he called an “obsession.”

II.

Here, however, I am more concerned about “power” in the therapeutic sense than in its implications for creativity, important as that, too, may be. For at least a decade now, it has been known in scientific circles (Saturday Review, August 1, 1959; Reader’s Digest, January, 1960) that psychoanalysis is a fiasco; and former practitioners of that dubious art are today experimenting broadly with different concepts and methods. They are particularly disenchanted with the alleged advantage of interminable talk; and many of them are open to the possibility that E. Stanley Jones was right when he remarked, some years ago, that it is easier to act yourself into a new way of thinking than to think yourself into a new way of acting. The result is that today something vaguely describable as action “therapy” is in the making; and in my own work along these lines, I find myself, more and more, guiding neurotic individuals into a two-fold strategy which involves (a) confession of past misdeeds and (b) concealment of present and future “good works.” Instead of advising disturbed persons to continue to pay fees to a professional counselor, I urge them to take advantage of the opportunities which are always freely available for becoming honest and open with respect to past mistakes and then to take the equivalent of a fee (in time or money) and devote it to “charity by stealth.”

Because we psychologists and psychiatrists have ourselves been so “obsessed” by an entirely different philosophy, it has been hard for us to assimilate the full implications and practical possibilities of this other approach; but recently I have been using it with increasing confidence, and success. I could cite a sizable list, now, of instances in which this approach has worked, quickly and dramatically, in the lives of disturbed persons. However, I shall instead describe only one person whose experiences are typical and yet unusually illuminating. A bright young man with a history of adolescent delinquency and debauchery, he had, when I first saw him, already been attracted to and joined a religious group and had undergone a conversion of sorts; but he continued to be ruminative, moody, unpredictable in his interpersonal responses, and was never quite certain when he might revert to his old mode of life. At the suggestion of a mutual friend, he came to see me; and we moved quickly and with surprisingly little resistance toward the decision to make a clean break of his past to two trusted members of this group, and from this step the new policy of openness was extended to “significant others.”

The relief experienced by this young man and the personal change noted in him by his friends were very striking; and we were soon able to start thinking about the more positive aspects of the program. At this juncture I began introducing him to Clive Randolph’s “secret.” The lad was much interested, and presently I saw his face contort into a sort of scowl, his eyes lit up, and with some difficulty he succeeded in re-stating the idea in a way which, to me at least, was both clarifying and novel. I am sorry I do not have a record of his exact words; but they went something like this: “What you seem to be saying is that when we tell or brag about some accomplishment or favor we’ve done someone, we exchange the ‘credit’ for immediate satisfaction, that is, we ‘spend’ it. And in the same way, when we confess an evil, something we feel guilty about, we likewise get rid of it, dissipate it. . . like those things I did and thought I wasn’t ashamed of but was. Now that I have admitted them, they aren’t really a part of me anymore—they just don’t seem very important. By admitting these things, I have ‘spent’ my guilt. And now the same principle seems to work also the other way ‘round. Just as the wrong kind of ‘credit,’ if it accumulates, will eventually destroy you, likewise, good ‘credit’ will, if not used up, give you strength and inner confidence. The net effect is that you are, in any case, what you keep back, save: strong and self-accepting if what you hide and keep back is good, and weak and self-hating if what you keep and hide is bad.”

In thinking over this rephrasing of the theory, I recalled that some years ago there was a lively controversy in scientific circles—between, it so happens, a Yale professor and one at Harvard—concerning the problem of defining “personality.” The man at Yale insisted that we are, basically, what other persons perceive us to be, and the reactions we produce in them. In short, he said, one’s personality is one’s “social stimulus value. When asked to describe an individual’s personality we describe the impression he makes on others, the way he influences others.”

This, according to the Harvard psychologist, was all wrong. “Definitions of personality in terms of the outer appearance of a man,” he said, “are completely unsatisfactory. Psychologically considered, personality is what a man really is, what an individual is regardless of the manner in which other people perceive his qualities or evaluate them.”

Suffice it to say that, twenty years ago, the Yale professor had the better of the argument. His contention that a person is the effect or impressions he produces on others seemed eminently scientific and congruent with the stimulus-response psychology of that time; whereas the view of the Harvard professor that we are what we really, inwardly are seemed mystical and tautological. But now we can give more substance to this position. Now we can see that one’s personality is, in truth, more importantly defined and structured by what is unknown, inward, secret about him than by what is known. When a person shows unusual strength, we often say, “I don’t see how he (or she) does it.” And, by the same token, when a person breaks down, we are often even more mystified; for again we have not been aware of hidden weaknesses, just as we have not known the source of the other person’s great strength.

During the time that I was seeing the young man just mentioned, a lawyer about 30 years of age from a distant city telephoned unexpectedly, announced that he was in town, and would like an appointment. When I saw him he said that during the past eight years he had been in treatment with three different psychoanalysts but had not achieved relief from his severely obsessional symptoms. Somewhere he had learned of my interest in a different approach, and soon it emerged that in all his past “treatment” no attempt had ever been made to get him to clean up a number of misrepresentations he had systematically practiced with his parents and other persons. And when, after a good start had been made along these lines, I introduced him to Clive Randolph’s formula, he recalled an aunt who, not long ago, had died of cancer. “And yet,” he said, “she was so courageous and strong about it all that everyone remarked how wonderful she was. Then, after she was dead, I don’t know how many people came and told us about how she had helped them in some way but would never let them mention it.” Who was this woman, really? Was she the person the public knew, or was she the person she knew? Perhaps it is less important what our “stimulus value” is to others than what is to ourselves. Had this woman sometime read Magnificent Obsession—or merely the 6th Chapter of the Book of Matthew? Yes, I think it is perhaps not too far from the truth to say that, ultimately, we are our secrets.

Some people struggle to find an experience of being loved by God. Others do experience God’s love but can’t seem to maintain it. Fears, worries, and anxieties quickly return.

Many times the problem is a sonship issue, a struggle with having the spirit of a spiritual orphan.

So first, let me define what I mean by an “experience” in God’s love.

Finding the Father’s Love – Feeling At Home in Love

The first time I was around my wife Cyndi (at that time my girlfriend) and her parents I was shocked. Nobody was afraid. Cyndi was very clearly not afraid of her dad. She seemed relaxed, talking, sharing, laughing. She was “at home” in her earthly father’s love. I was still learning to have an experience like this.

Are you “at home” in God’s love?

• A place you feel so loved, so safe, so accepted and valued.
• A sense you belong.
• No feeling that you have to do good enough.
• No sense that others are on the inside, accepted, but you’re on the outside.
• No sense you might accidentally say the wrong thing and get “the look” of irritation that communicates you do not measure up.

There came a point in my Christian life where I experienced God’s love. If your struggling with this, get this series on the Father’s Love and it will help.

After awhile, I discovered, I struggled to maintain God’s love. The fears came back.

The Orphan Spirit

I remember being on a ministry trip to Tampa, Florida with Jack Frost of Shiloh Place. It was a conference on the Father’s love. Yet I was having a panic attack. My mind started racing with all the problems I saw in my life that seemingly had no solutions. My heart was beating harder, my breathing became shallow, I felt adrenaline and knots in my stomach.

When I saw clouds in my life and everything wasn’t going my way, I would panic; fear would return and I would struggle to trust my Father’s love. Orphan thinking would pull me from being “at home” in His love.

Some people study all the books and CDs on the Father’s love. They come to the conferences, receive prayers – but just can’t get the Father’s love. They continue to live life as if they didn’t have a home.

The Stronghold: knowing how to have the heart of a son.

The Answer: needing sonship introduced to the heart.

Malachi Captures It

Malachi 4:5, 6 Behold, I will send you Elijah the prophet before the coming of the great and dreadful day of the Lord. 6  And he will turn the hearts of the fathers to the children, And the hearts of the children to their fathers, lest I come and strike the earth with a curse.

As you begin to embrace a spirit on sonship in your heart you begin to live more continuously in the Father’s love. In the next post we will consider these verses in Malachi more closely.

Motivation

What motivates you? What motivates you to seek God? What motivates you to live righteously? What motivates you to live on a budget, watch your health, spend time with your family, work hard to make money?

Finding proper motivation is what produces stress-free success.

What motivates you is a hugely important question. Marketing firms for television commercials and on the internet are highly interested in this. Anyone who does any public speaking is seeking to motivate people to something. Your relationship with yourself and God is a constant working out of proper motivation.

Accountability/Fear Motivation

A preacher sought to motivate:

“We’ll all stand before God and give an account one day. A woman who interceded daily for 40 years, crying out for family and neighbors, seeking only God and not materialism, will have a good reward. A hard working couple who got the right education, the right job, earned well and retired early may have lived a wasted life when they stand before God. It is time we embraced our calling to serve!”

Accountability, a fear of the consequences of standing before God having done very little for the His kingdom, are real things. They are not, however, God’s highest form of motivation. The law and its consequences do exist to keep a lid on bad behavior, but it will never produce intimacy with God. Galatians 4 does say we start out under “tutors and governors” but we are supposed to mature into a heart cry of “Abba Father.” In other words, we are supposed to mature into a passionate love for our Heavenly Father as the motive behind all that we do.

Only Love Matures

Walking with God is not a matter of being sufficiently                                                    convicted by a fear of consequences into maturity.

Walking with God is a matter of learning to truly, experientially love God and then growing in that love the rest of your life. Only in this manner can a person sell out to the purposes of God from a place of love rather than works. The minute my motivation slips back into fear I slip back into works, trying to establish my own righteousness.

Works

Rom.10:2-4 — For I bear them witness that they have a zeal for God, but not according to knowledge. For they being ignorant of God’s righteousness, and seeking to establish their own righteousness, have not submitted to the righteousness of God. For Christ is the end of the law for righteousness to everyone who believes.

So what motivates you?

Most Christians would say they have a goal of daily communion with God. We all long to live in His presence moment by moment, yet many would say they find this hard to do.

This has been my story. For years I’ve loved books like, The Practice of the Presence of God, Rees Howells Intercessor, and the Autobiography of Madam Guyon. They describe such wonderful communion with God. I’ve often thought of Enoch going so deep into communion with God that one day he simply stepped over to the other side.

Walking with God is described in several different ways in the Bible:

• Abiding (John 15:4)
• Being led by the Spirit (Romans 6-8)
• Entering God’s rest (Hebrews 3, 4)

I’ve often struggled to “be led,” to “rest,” to “abide.” God has been giving me a key that makes all this work.

A Wonderful Key

The key is living in love. Living in love empowers us to abide in God.

In the New King James Bible there is an interesting Section Heading for 1 Jn.4:7, 8:

“Knowing God Through Love”

These verses really get to the heart of the matter.

7 Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. 8 He who does not love does not know God, for God is love.

These verses are so helpful in that they give you a heart gauge to see if you are abiding – are you walking in love? Without walking in love there’s a breakdown in knowing God and abiding in Him. So in searching for this breakdown you simply look for the “love disconnect.”

Love is how you walk in daily communion. Receiving His love and giving it away is the Key to Life!

Practically speaking, how do you do this? Here are two things I’m seeking to do daily in my devotions.

1—Receiving His Love

Daily in devotions I seek to position myself to let His love into my heart.

I ask myself:

• Can I focus on God’s presence right now and know in my heart I’m loved?
• Am I receiving His love or do thoughts come about some way I’m not measuring up?
• As I seek to embrace God’s love do thoughts come about a relationship that is not right or a sin in my life?

If I notice anything hindering God’s love — the disconnect — I remind myself of His truths:

• He loves me with an everlasting love. (Ezk.31:3) There’s never a time I’m not loved by God, even when I’ve made mistakes.
• There’s nothing I can do to cause God to love me any more than He already loves me and nothing I can do to cause Him to love me any less. I can never be “good enough” to receive His love, it’s a free gift. (Rom.3:27, 28, Eph.2:8, 9, 1 Jn.4:10)
• Only love matures. Fear of judgment and condemnation never produce true maturity. It is God who will finish the work He began in me. I can’t work hard enough to produce it. I can only cooperate with it. (Phil.1:6, Rm.2:4)
• Once I’ve embraced God’s love for me anew I deal with anything in my heart.
  • If I’ve sinned I repent.
  • If I’ve wronged someone I ask forgiveness.
  • If I’m emotionally triggered and can’t get past it I find someone to do prayer ministry with me.

2—Giving God’s Love Away

The second thing I do is consider how I might give God’s love away to others. I might ask God in prayer to show me some ways. I sometimes consider different relationships in my life and consider how I might show God’s love to them today.

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As you seek to live in God’s love daily you will be amazed at how your relationship with Him begins to rapidly grow!