How to Avoid the Trap of Forcing Christian Victory and Learn to Align Your Heart Instead
Trying to Force Victory is the Most Common of Traps Christians fall into.
All movement must have an energy source. Consider if our combustion is the clean fuel of the Holy Spirit working through
an aligned heart, or is it a fleshly, unclean source of performance. When we cook on an unclean fuel, the food will have a bad or even toxic flavor. In discovering this, our approach is usually to force out the wrong flavor or add enough other spices to cover it.
Often we have a present-tense mindset and approach to healing in the Body of Christ. We are taught to cast something out, resist wrong thoughts, deny pain and claim victory.
Consider the message of some of the top leaders in the church. Joyce Meyer and her best selling “Battlefield of the Mind.” John Bevere’s message to sufficiently “Fear God” in order to be blessed rather than cursed. Even the very grace oriented Joseph Prince will talk about “not accepting” condemnation. These aren’t necessarily bad as long as they’re not a singular answer.
As long as my heart and head are in agreement, choosing to stand on God’s word is wonderful and right. Yet, what if I try to walk in obedience in my finances for example, and I’m overcome with doubt; or what if I try to walk in rest, and anxiety rears its ugly head? Now it takes great effort and striving to keep going; it becomes difficult to simply just stand on His word.
Denial
The teaching is that if we deny what we feel long enough, eventually it will die, and the new feeling will win. However there are at least two problems with this. One, I don’t know hardly anyone with the discipline to consistently walk this out. Two, it’s a denial of what is actually happening in my heart.
Heart Kindness
This doubt or anxiety is telling me something. There’s an issue in my heart that needs to be dealt with. So instead of fighting these
feelings, it is much better to use them as the indicators they are to find the wrong belief they are exposing in my heart. As I can acknowledge my problem to the Lord and hold it before Him, He resolves it. Now my heart and head are back in agreement and I am able to wholeheartedly stand on His word.
Restful Freedom
God has true freedom for us and not just controlled behavior. The fruit of the spirit flows naturally when the Holy Spirit works through an aligned heart. The energy source is clean and healthy underneath. This leads to maintenance free victory, living Romans 6-8 without striving to resist or deny anything.
Oh how we need to hear more of this Robert !!!!!!
For most of my life I tried to live up to certain rules, tip-toe round certain people and then shove negative emotions down inside of me and deny them rather than accept the truth of what was going on inside of me.
As you rightly say, it is wrong beliefs that cause negative emotions which lead on to confusion and more pain.
It is time spent with Abba as a child with a loving, kind and good Dad, one who isn’t going to beat her up
for speaking up but one who instead takes time to listen to and understand her heart’s cry that we need
more than anything !!!
It doesn’t matter how old we are in years, we can still come to Abba just as we are !!
God Bless you and Cyndi !!
Lynn
Thanks Lynn, great comment!
Thanks Robert! This is right on! I totally see my feelings this way and I never used to before doing Ministry. Good words.
Robert,
I absolutely love this post. I don’t think I’ve heard anyone challenge this line of thinking as you have. For years as a Christian I have fought the same way, but noticed the victories I have gotten did not come from mind control, but healing of the heart.
Awesome stuff man. Keep it up!
Thanks Paula and Mark for commenting.